The end of the year is almost here, so that means it's time for best-of-2019 lists! This year, I'm doing two best books lists. They're not necessarily books that were PUBLISHED in 2019, but are books that I read this year. This first list is non-fiction and adult fiction that I read this year, and I'll post my second list shortly, of my favorite young adult reads from 2019.
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Shelley's Top Adult Fiction Books of 2019
My Sister the Serial Killer by Oyinkan Braithwaite (2018)
This book is really clever and surprisingly funny, especially considering the topic. It takes place in Nigeria and is narrated by Korede, whose sister Ayoola has a tendency to murder her boyfriends. And after Ayoola is done, she calls Korede, a nurse and meticulous cleaner, in to deal with the mess. When Ayoola sets her sights on Korede's crush, Korede has to decide whether to continue protecting her sister, or to look out for the man she secretly in love with. This is an adult novel, but the sisters live with their mom and the story is fast-paced like YA. I got wrapped up in the story right away, and I thought the author did an awesome job of describing awful acts in a way that made them seem understandable.
Borderline by Mishell Baker (2016)
I participated in the Disability Readathon in October of 2019 and spent the month reading almost exclusively books by disabled authors. This book was one that I probably wouldn't have found if not for the readathon, and I'm so glad I did find it! The protagonist is Millie, who has borderline personality disorder and had both of her legs amputated after a suicide attempt. She's recruited to join the Arcadia Project, which monitors traffic to and from a parallel world full of fairies, witches, magicians and monsters. She's tasked with tracking down a fae who's gone missing in Hollywood, and moves in with a house full of other Arcadia Project staff while she looks for him. I loved how diverse and fleshed out the side characters were, and I also loved watching Millie navigate relationships with her BPD. This book is the first in a series, and so far I've read the second book (Phantom Pains) and loved it too! I recommend this one if you like urban fantasy and mysteries.
Shelley's Top Non-Fiction Books of 2019
White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard for White People to Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo (2018)
I recommend this to white Americans everywhere! I've never read a book before that's explicitly about whiteness. I feel like being white isn't something we're supposed to talk about or acknowledge, but this book is about the ways that we're trained to be white. It talks about the ways that white people segregate ourselves from people of color, the ways that different lives are assigned different value by media and society, how we're taught that people of color are dangerous to white people when it's really the opposite, and the way that white people tend to focus more on proving that we're not racist than on actually fighting racism. I think that, since the information in this book is coming from a white person, it's going to be a lot more digestible for white people than it would be if coming from a person of color. Which is shitty but true.
Strangers Assume My Girlfriend Is My Nurse by Shane Burcaw (2019)
Another one I wouldn't have known about if not for the Disability Readathon. Shane Burcaw has Spinal Muscular Atrophy and has used a wheelchair since he was two. This is his second memoir, and talks a lot about his interactions with other people and how they treat him. It's a funny, interesting memoir, and seemed really honest. I liked the juxtaposition of humor (lots of dick jokes) with really personal, vulnerable writing. I especially appreciated the points he made about people treating him like he's sad or like his life must be sad, when he doesn't feel like his life is sad at all. It doesn't feel like a political book, and I feel like that makes it a really accessible introduction to ableism. The funny stuff makes the deeper stuff kind of sneak in.
Rescuing Penny Jane: One Shelter Volunteer, Countless Dogs, and the Quest to Find Them All Homes by Amy Sutherland (2017)
I've enjoyed every Amy Sutherland book that I've read, so I was super excited when, shortly after I adopted a shelter dog, I learned that she has a book all about shelter dogs! One funny thing about this book, though, is that she prefers dogs that are the opposite of my dog - older big dogs that have health conditions or trauma. She mentions puppies briefly, only to say that she feels embarrassed to admit that she's not that interested in them. She writes about her experience volunteering at her local shelter, and then goes in-depth into different shelter styles and techniques to get the dogs adopted. I learned a lot about dogs and shelters, and I also liked learning about Amy's personal experiences with individual dogs. I'm glad this book came into my life when it did!
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